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It has been nearly four months since I moved to Brisbane, and it’s safe to say that I am now finally starting to feel a little more settled. Semester 1 of uni is wrapping up, I now have a steady casual job, and I am slowly growing more comfortable finding my bearings around the Brisbane cityscape. It will be a while until I find my way around Brisbane as well as I did Adelaide, but I’m getting there. Here’s hoping this lovely city has hidden gems I have yet to discover… 

  May 24, 2013 at 02:21pm

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  May 23, 2013 at 02:32pm

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The Family Law | Benjamin Law

In an attempt to procrastinate in a somewhat practical and beneficial way, I have been drowning myself in many, many, many different books as of late, and The Family Law is, by far, one of the best and most relatable biographies I have come across in recent years. I have been a fan of Benjamin Law for many years - enjoying every one of his hilarious and anecdotal articles in the always lovely frankie magazine - and once I realised that he, too, studied at QUT, I felt I just had to read up on more of his other works.

The text follows Law’s life and upbringing on the Sunshine Coast - a crazy amalgamation of sibling rivalries, parental disputes, and issues with personal identity, as well as many other deep-seated issues, such as immigration, divorce, and coming out. And, of course, there is also discussion of that always confronting issue of being part of a large asian family living in Australia, and constantly being perceived as a tourist. 

Within the first few pages, I felt an immediate connection with Law, and the relationships he holds with his siblings - particularly their absolutely unnecessary need to make up words (“Heurgh - uttered as if you’re dry retching - denotes disgust and horror at something. Flahs is a bouquet of fancy flowers,”), create actions and sounds to said words (“… For reasons we’ve long forgotten, commence seduction has to be said mechanically with robotic arm movements,”), while also making light of situations that are, otherwise, quite macabre. I must admit, I had a deep chuckle when he described their family trip to China to collect their grandmother’s ashes as “The Ashes Tour”. I was also drawn to Law’s hilarious way with words and absolute unapologetic honesty - I liken it to Tina Fey’s Bossypants, and Mindy Kaling’s Is Everyone Hanging Out With Me (And Other Concerns).

The Family Law is honest, funny, and heartwarming, and, above all else, is just a breezy, uplifting read with surprising warmth and depth. It made me feel at home, in a time where my family feels so far away.

  May 23, 2013 at 02:21pm

Independent Living Is… | starfleetrambo

LOONEY TUNES x KRISS KROSS

New favourite shirt. Wore it every day last week, I don’t even care. Gah.

  April 22, 2013 at 09:49pm

Them Swoops | Work Around it

I saw Them Swoops open for Hungry Kids of Hungary at The Hifi this passed weekend. Interesting sound. Very “indie pop”. Is that a thing? Anyway… Looking forward to more music from these kids, and hopefully they’ll soon release an album/EP!

  April 22, 2013 at 06:46pm

The Nerdist (TV show) | BBC America

I am such a huge fan of comedy.

Over the past few years, my appreciation for comedy has grown exponentially.  Maybe it was my visit to Second City and the UCB during my three-month venture of the US, or maybe it was being surrounded by such wonderful and hilarious movie buffs for the past three years, but, ugh, my love has moved so far beyond watching the occasional SNL episode, or having a few staple TV shows to watch every week. 

It’s a problem, you guys. 

And I don’t, in any way, consider myself some sort of comedy aficionado~, nor do I feel I could ever do improv, write, or do stand-up - but manI just find that making people laugh is so much harder than evoking such deep emotion through drama, and humour seems to bring people together in such an interesting way.

Well, guys, my latest obsession: The Nerdist. I was first introduced to The Nerdist podcast last year, when their interview with Anna Kendrick started to circulate. The interview was so raw, hilarious, and grounding. The platform presents such a relaxed environment, and though the hour-long format may seem deterring at first, it really just allows for a more interesting conversation. With each interview, they explore many different levels and avenues of geekery in such a hilarious way - allowing the interviewee to guide the discussion, and thrash out whatever pop culture they enjoy. And though the interview with Anna Kendrick was just so wonderful in itself, what I found so utterly appealing was how the interviewers never exude any sense of superiority or holier-than-thou attitude in regards to their own knowledge of pop-culture. They are accepting, and just genuinely seem interested in what others have to say. I, for one, have always felt somewhat uncomfortable with my own ‘geeky’ interests (for lack of a better phrase), and that’s not as to say that I have ever felt embarrassed by whatever I like, but rather, I never feel my immediate circle of friends are ever interested in the type of pop-culture I consume. The Nerdist have created such an open and welcoming format, and every one of their podcasts are just so engaging. Honestly, each episode makes me love their show that little bit more, and I always form such a greater appreciation for whomever they interview.

And who thought my love for Anna Kendrick could grow any stronger?

Anyway, I recently discovered that The Nerdist now have their own TV show on BBC America (yes, I know, I’m quite behind the times), and their latest episode with the lovely Ben Schwartz and Elijah Wood just absolutely slaysso it looks like I have yet another show to add to my weekly rounds.

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  April 20, 2013 at 07:21pm

bean. | George Street, Brisbane

Tucked in a little laneway down George Street is this wonderful little underground cafe. I have walked passed it on my way to uni every day for the past three months, but it was only today when I decided to have a peek. I don’t know why, but I often feel intimidated by places with such unique design; I always feel that somewhere so hidden would have already established a set of loyal patrons, and anyone new would be met with distaste. However, as I walked into bean., immediately, I felt welcome - greeted with a smile, and invited to take a seat. As someone who has just moved here from interstate, this place felt like a little slice of home. Makeshift furniture, beautiful street art, and just a wonderful vibe. Though I have yet to explore much of Brisbane, this cafe reminded me of why I enjoyed exploring in the first place, and for the first time in months, I felt settled and inspired.

#bean.  #Brisbane  #coffee  #cafe  
  April 18, 2013 at 10:07pm

The Greatest ‘Stache Clash | Damaged Goods

This may just be one of the most incredible things I have ever seen.

  April 15, 2013 at 09:49pm

People have a hard time letting go of their suffering. Out of a fear of the unknown, they prefer suffering that is familiar.

Thich Nhat Hanh
  April 12, 2013 at 02:36pm
Title: Ain't It Fun Artist: Paramore 1,032 plays

Ain’t It Fun | Paramore

Don’t go cryin’ to your mumma, ‘cause you’re all alone in the real world.

Track & Field | Fortitude Valley, Brisbane

Just bought tickets to this wee festival and I’m super excited. ALPINE quickly became a favourite after I saw them open for Matt Corby last year, so naturally, I’m ridiculously intrigued to see what The Jungle Giants, Dune Rats and ASTA have to offer!

Weee! 

  April 06, 2013 at 10:16pm

The Kings of Summer | teaser trailer

“Three teenage friends, in the ultimate act of independence, decide to spend their summer building a house in the woods and living off the land.”

I am an absolute sucker for ‘coming of age’ films, and anything described as ‘Superbad meets Stand By Me’ is something I’ll definitely pay attention to. IMDb also tells me it stars Alison Brie, Nick Offerman, and Megan Mullally! Jeesh.

  April 05, 2013 at 04:28pm

(via 365q)

When I first started this blog, I told myself I would no longer write of my mental distresses, as I didn’t want to give them more attention then they’re due. I thought of it as away of detoxing - motivation to get out and do more - and for a while, it worked; but these passed couple of months have been so up-and-down that I just need a release.

These days, I never feel like I am doing enough. Whether it be in regards to studying, exercising, eating healthy, or simply just livingI am constantly in fear of there always being something better out there that I have yet to try or find, which leaves me to feel as though whatever I am pursuing is ultimately, well, wrong.

However, instead of utilising this fear as reason to do and try more, i, instead, sink into myself and harshly criticise every aspect of my own being. I leave things incomplete, and find myself pursuing the exact opposite of whatever I’m initially trying to achieve, because then at least I know that if I fail, I fail completely. 

This doesn’t make me any happier, nor does it alleviate any anxiety or stress; It’s completely mindless and self-destructive, and yet it’s a habit I just can’t seem to shake.

  April 05, 2013 at 04:13pm via 365q